Within this past year I have felt the presence of death in my life to be stronger than in the past. At first I agreed with my father that I have just been looking for it more, thus, it seems it is in my life more. I agreed with this until this past month when things just kept showing up that either had to directly do with death or represented it. Plus, I know I have not been looking for it because I went through that when my grandfather passed away a couple years ago. I brought my thoughts on this stronger presence of death in my life up to some friends and will also address it here.
It all started with celebrity deaths, which is the initial reason for my believing I was just looking for death more. It’s obvious to many that many more celebs died this past year than the years before it, which is a bit odd. But, during the summer I started to notice that it wasn’t just celebrities but regular people who weren’t famous were dying more. I used to watch the news all the time when I was in middle school 4 years ago and there was never so many deaths being reported; accidents, murder, etc.
But one day a few months ago on an extremely chilly day I just felt death everywhere. Each gust of wind sent a chill down my spine. I told one person about this and they kind of passed it off saying it was nothing and it was all in my head, but I know it is not. I felt death that day and it has come and made a nice home on our earth. Something big is going to happen soon, I just know it and feel it.
I am writing this because of how I have felt death’s presence growing stronger around me. About a month ago a girl I knew died, at 14 years old, we were never close but we were friendly towards each other and also said hello. It made me sad at the time because the way she died was so sudden, a gun went off by accident and she was shot in the stomach. That’s the closest death has come to someone I know, but many of my friends have been attending funerals of people they knew, and I now have 2 friends with dying grandparents. Even my parents have known of more people dying.
Death has shown up in other ways too. One night I decided to watch a comedy to lift my spirits, I wasn’t super happy, and I clicked on Camille, a movie with Sienna Miller and James Franco that Netflix had recommended. It ended happy but the premise was a bit depressing, a young couple going on their honeymoon when they get in an accident and the rest of the movie involved Franco trying to convince Miller that she’s dead and her need to accept her death. It really took me aback. The next day Netflix recommended the show Dead Like Me, a show kind of on modern-day grim reapers, and the show Dexter. I really enjoy both shows but there is death in every single episode.
Maybe I am just more prone to noticing death, but that just makes me sad that society has made me so into death. I recently had a couple dreams with funerals but they usually have nothing to do with death in dreams so I didn’t really think much of it. There was a poem we analyzed today in my English class that everyone knew was about two lovers and their separation but it was a big eye-opener that the first stanza had to do with death.
I have never been scared of death or dying, and I still feel the same now. I have accepted death and know it is meant to occur when it must. I know the death of others will make me sad but I know they have gone on to a much more peaceful place so I tend not to grieve long. This feel that death’s presence has been growing stronger is just something that intrigues me and something I am trying to understand.